May I first suggest you encourage him to take as many sexually explicit or simple nude photos of you (voluntarily) as possible? Encourage him to utilize clandestine cameras, strategically placed throughout your home. As these surveilled digital recordings will be commingled with the images/videos that were freely taken thereby further increasing the odds of knowing what is actually factual, with what is not. At first, you will love the excitement and soon it will more addictive than heroin. Get ready for the ride of a lifetime.