This is not short… I will be honest, I am not the type of person to air peoples dirty laundry. I also don’t believe a homewrecker is a home wrecker if they don’t know they’re being one. Once they KNOW about the spouse…they are now a homewrecker. I am also not the type of person to just blame one party. Considering the cheating spouse is just as much at fault.
I am posting for a friend, who will be referred to as my friend or the wife. I have her entire permission to post their story. My friend and her husband have been married for 7 years and have a beautiful little girl. Her husband was in the Navy. At least one time per year that they have been married, he has had an emotional affair with other women, including internet flirting, and in person flirting when available (even while he was deployed).
About a year ago, he kept with his routine. Nicole was the one that he decided to try his luck with. At first this wasn’t her fault as she did not know Ken was married. His wife found out, once again and fought to make her husband happy. He told his wife that he stopped talking to Nicole, which he did. Nicole found out from many of my friends’ family members, and even my friend, that he was married. She made the decision that she wasn’t going to be a homewrecker. A few months ago, apparently he decided to have another affair…but this time it wasn’t a different girl or an internet fling. It was Nicole.